Royal mistress

A royal mistress is the historical position and sometimes unofficial title of the extramarital lover of a monarch or an heir apparent, who was expected to provide certain services, such as sexual or romantic intimacy,[1] companionship, and advice in return for security, titles, money, honours, and an influential place at the royal court. Thus, some royal mistresses have had considerable power, being the power behind the throne.[2] The institution partly owes its prevalence to the fact that royal marriages used to be conducted solely on the basis of political and dynastic considerations, leaving little space for the monarch's personal preferences in the choice of a partner.[2][3]

The title of royal mistress was never official, and most mistresses had an official reason to be at the court, such as being a lady-in-waiting or maid-of-honour to a female member of the royal family or a governess to the royal children. However, their real position was most often an open secret,[4] and there was no real division between formal and informal political power in the early French court.[3] From the 15th century onward and most importantly in France, chief mistresses gained a semi-official title (French: maîtresse-en-titre, literally "official mistress"), which came with its own assigned apartments in the palace. A chief mistress was also sometimes called a maîtresse déclarée, or "declared mistress". An unacknowledged, less important royal lover was known as a petite maîtresse ("little mistress").[4]

In Europe, the children of mistresses were typically not included in the line of succession, except when secret marriages were alleged. They were however regularly given titles and high positions in the court or the army.

Lists of royal mistresses

  • List of French royal mistresses
  • List of Russian royal mistresses and lovers
  • List of Swedish royal mistresses

Austria

Belgium

Denmark

Egypt

Germany

Bavaria

Brunswick

Hesse

Prussia

Württemberg

  • Wilhelmine von Grävenitz (1684-1744), mistress and bigamous wife of Erbhard Louis
  • Countess Franziska von Hohenheim (1748-1811), mistress and wife of Charles Eugene

Italy

Ferrara

Milan

Naples

Florence

Savoy

Norway

Poland

  • 1694–1696 Countess Maria Aurora von Königsmarck
  • 1696–1699 Countess Anna Aloysia Maximiliane von Lamberg
  • 1698–1704 Ursula Katharina of Altenbockum, later Princess of Teschen
  • 1701–1706 Maria Aurora von Spiegel
  • 1704–1713 Anna Constantia von Brockdorff, later Countess of Cosel
  • 1706–1707 Henriette Rénard
  • 1708 Angélique Debargues, French dancer and actress
  • 1713–1719 Maria Magdalena of Bielinski, Countess of Dönhoff then Princess Lubomirska
  • 1720–1721 Erdmuthe Sophie of Dieskau and of Loß
  • 1721–1722 Baroness Kristiane of Osterhausen and of Stanisławski

Portugal

Romania

Spain

Castile and León

Sweden

United Kingdom

Other countries

See also

References

  1. ^ "The King's Mistress - a royal tradition". 27 April 2005. Retrieved 20 May 2022.
  2. ^ a b "In His Majesty's, Ahem, Service (washingtonpost.com)". www.washingtonpost.com. Retrieved 20 May 2022.
  3. ^ a b Little, Becky. "The Royal Mistress: Often the Most Powerful Person in a King's Court". HISTORY. Retrieved 20 May 2022.
  4. ^ a b Revolutions, Age of (7 June 2021). "The Rise and Fall of the French Royal Mistress". Age of Revolutions. Retrieved 20 May 2022.

Further reading

  • Carlton, Charles (1990). Royal Mistresses. Routledge. ISBN 978-0-415-00769-6.
  • Cawthorne, Nigel (1994). The Sex Lives of the Kings and Queens of England: From Henry VIII to the Present Day. Prion. ISBN 1-85375-139-1.
  • Friedman, Dennis (2003). Ladies of the Bedchamber:The Role of the Royal Mistress. UK: Peter Owen Publishers. ISBN 0-7206-1244-6.
  • Hermann, Eleanor (2004). Sex with Kings:500 Years of Adultery, Power, Rivalry, and Revenge. USA: HarperCollins Publishers.
  • Powell, Roger (2010). ROYAL SEX: Mistresses and the Lovers of the British Royal Family. Amberley. ISBN 1-84868-212-3.